The Value of Playing “Let’s Pretend”

Playing “Pretend” has always come naturally to a child, whether it’s cowboys and Indians, soldiers or, nowadays, Iron Man or one of the Avengers.  Research conducted over more than 70 years has shown that pretend or make-believe play is a very important part of a child’s cognitive and social development.pretend

Psychologists from New York University, Yale University, and other prestigious learning institutions have shown that pretend play has the following advantages in children from ages two and a half to six or seven:

  • Increased usage of language, including things such as subjunctives, adjectives, and different tenses.
  • Expression of both positive and negative feelings, as well as the ability to integrate cognition with emotion. Promote positive and happy emotions.
  • Developed self-regulation resulting in reduced aggression, civility, empathy, and delay of gratification.
  • Opportunity to learn social skills like communication and problem-solving, especially when toys are part of the scenarios. Create without limits.
  • Enhancement of the capacity for creativity and cognitive flexibility.
  • Greater imaginativeness, enhanced curiosity, and learning skills including math and reading.

The research has also shown, and Joy Kids Universe believes, that parents who tell bedtime stories to their children, or explain natural and social occurrences to them, will encourage them in pretend play. Likewise, parents who participate in school programs designed to teach imaginative play games will find their children with higher academic preparedness, compared with children whose parents did not participate. Improvements were demonstrated even in areas like vocabulary, nature knowledge, general information, and manners.

Schools that encourage, or even tolerate, pretend play are another important source. Schools that do so as part of their regular curriculum, or even during recess, have experienced increased learning skills in preschoolers or early schoolers. Casey Rose learns freely and joyfully each day.

Pretend play gives children the chance to discover for themselves different points of view, ideas and emotions – all of which can become an important part of their lives.

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The Benefits of Music for Small Children

Whether you know it or not, you’ve already introduced a child to music if you’ve ever sung a lullaby to a baby. Children are naturals when it comes to music, and feeding this instinct can give your child many advantages later in life. Our mission at Joy Kids Universe is to spread ripples of joy all over the world. Music can help implement this principle.

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  • Music improves a child’s mind. In becoming familiar with beats and rhythm, the child learns to recognize patterns and learn mathematical skills.
  • Music improves the body. Learning music with instruments, like the guitar or drums, helps develop a child’s motor skills.
  • Music improves social skills. Playing an instrument as part of a group teaches a child cooperation and teamwork. The need to blend in and produce a harmonious result becomes part of a child’s upbringing.
  • Music improves a child’s behavior. The discipline that music demands helps a child develop patience. Music makes the child realize that only constant practice makes perfect.
  • Music improves a child’s self-confidence. Learning to give and take criticism, from teachers and peers, is one of the invaluable traits a child learns from music.
  • Music improves a child’s world view. Becoming familiar with the music and instruments of other cultures helps the child learn about the world and different peoples.

The Joybug sincerely LOVES to see all of the world’s children living and growing through life’s experiences in a carefree and harmonious way each and every day. Music inspires different cultures to share common ground and to create joy, which always leads to joyful moments and memories.

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It All Starts With Self Love

It All Starts With Loving Yourself

“You yourself, as much as anybody in the universe, deserve your love and affection”. Although those are the words of The Buddha, they are the way of life of the Joy Kids Universe kids and their families. Somehow, loving yourself has taken on some negative connotations like narcissism or selfishness. But, there’s enough science to show that, if you don’t start with loving yourself, you won’t get very far showing love to others.

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So, how do you love yourself? Well, you do it the same you love others – a Joy Kids Universe belief, showing love without judgement.

  • Think good things about yourself. Focus on your strengths and good traits. If you think you have any faults (and who doesn’t?), do something to correct them.
  • Make yourself look good. Exercise, stay healthy, and keep fit. Dress comfortably and in a style that makes you feel attractive.
  • Gift yourself. Buy things for yourself that make you happy, like these “Olive You” Gratitude Bracelets. Eat food that you like, in places that you enjoy. Go on holidays, weekend sorties, and attend events where you can have fun.
  • Forgive yourself. We all trip up once in a while. When you do, don’t let it eat at you. Find out why, get over it, then move on and keep on loving yourself.

You can’t give what you don’t have. So, if you want to love your family, friends and others, start out by learning to freely and joyfully love yourself each day!

 

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